We will look at five body language tricks that would make anyone instantly like us. Now definitely, it’s important that people should like us. It kind of boosts up our confidence.
Most of the people are very much in love with themselves, very much interested in themselves. So how do we capture and hold their attention towards our conversation or towards us without saying a word?
Well, it’s a wonderful body that would help to capture and hold their attention. So, we will look at these ways to win friends and to influence people.
The first trick is a Smile, please smile. It’s very important to smile. Now of course this doesn’t mean that you keep grinning all day long, keep grinning that would not help. That would not impress people either, because they would think that you do this for everyone.
So not that impressive, what you need to do is the moment you greet people, give a very positive warm responsive smile. So, the smile should flood over your face and that would stipulate good feelings. It would give a very positive feeling to the opposite person and will show that you are happy and you’re feeling very glad to meet this person. So do smile because it works.
The second trick is Sticky eyes. So, what are sticky eyes? Well, eyes are the most important part of our body and here what I mean is don’t break eye contact. Now when you are talking to someone pretend that you are completely glued to the conversation. Like your eyes are completely glued to the conversation that you’re having with the opposite person. So, this brings a little bit of confidence in the opposite person.
Now even when the conversation ends, do not just look away. What you need to do is reluctantly or slowly look away from that person that you’re talking to, so which means that don’t break your eye contact instantly.
The third is , Big baby pivot. When you meet someone make sure that you turn completely, turn your body, keep your head straight. You don’t have to just look back and say hello to him, that’s not right. So, give completely undivided attention like you would do it for a baby.
If a baby crawls up to you and you know is trying to seek attention, of course with open arms and with a straight body, you are giving him that undivided attention. So that’s what even every adult likes. He will be highly impressed if you do that, complete attention is what everybody loves.
The fourth is Limiting the fidget. If you want to appear credible, do not move much, when you are having a conversation with someone, not professional and not appreciated by anybody, so do not move much. Also stop fidgeting with your hands, like stop wiggling or even stop scratching like many people have a habit of scratching, while they are talking.
The fifth is, Use your hands. Hands are the most important part of a body, do use them. Well, do not cross your hands, crossing your hands or your arms shows disinterest. Are you really bored of a conversation?
When you use your hands while you are talking, it helps active speech production, which means it helps you to take those words out, you know your mind is set that you must use these words or use this vocabulary. So, it’s the hands that help you to take it out of your mouth, so do use it. Finally, do not stand straight or do not cross your hands, while you are talking to someone.
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